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I have always encouraged responsible femdom and sissy play, maybe because blackmail never was on top of my fetish list. As a Mistress, I believe we can explore the world of kink without risking our reputation. There were times when I needed to start training new subs with punishment, because of how easy it made it to blackmail them. I know that for many blackmail is your kink, but I realized, that most of you simply don’t have enough knowledge to keep yourself safe.

Some stories I’ve heard were terrifying. They made me interested in the topic, but I wanted more than just anecdotes. I decided to gather more data that would help submissive men make an informed decision in case they fell victim to femdom blackmail by a fake Mistress. I made a survey with a few key questions and gathered several hundred replies. Let me share the results with you.

Only 1 in 5 submissive men and sissies didn’t experience unwanted femdom blackmail or an attempt

I asked submissive men on different social media channels if they ever fell victim to sissy/femdom blackmail. Only 19% answered with a straight. 31% (!) were blackmailed at some point. 50% of men reported that a criminal posing as a Mistress tried to scam them.

Let those numbers sink in. Seems like being a submissive man is not for the faint-hearted.

The attacker is most likely to get straight to the sextortion.

52% of the people who were blackmailed, said that the attacker started sissy/femdom blackmail on the first day. Another 29% reported it was within 7 days of making first contact.

What is there to learn from it? If you want to minimize the risk of blackmail, wait before you share compromising info. Only 6% reported that the attacker waited for more than a month.

The attacker is unlikely to fulfil their threats

I was happy to see the results of the next question. Only 21% of respondents gave in to the demands. I could only wish for this number to decrease. The lower the success rate, the more unrewarding it would be for scammers to hunt men like you online.

Of the 79% of submissives who ignored the threats, only 17% reported the threats to be fulfilled.

Out of 21% of people who gave in, 38% said the attacker kept demanding more and more.

If you’re reading this because you’re a victim of sextortion, think carefully about the numbers above. What is at stake for you? Is that 17% an acceptable risk? Will your career be ruined or will it only be a temporary embarrassment?

There’s no point in me saying that you should have thought about it before. Now, you can only minimize the damage.

How to avoid sissy/femdom blackmail?

I know it’s a legitimate kink. However, due to its nature, it attracts mainly those who couldn’t care less about femdom, similar to findom. Whenever you feel tempted by a picture of a beautiful Mistress, chances are it’s an overweight middle-aged man. Cliché, I know – but you still forget it.

“MISTRESS” APPROACHES YOU ON YOUR PRIVATE SOCIAL MEDIA

Whenever there’s a connection to your private life on your social media, don’t use it for finding a Mistress. Usually, the threats a fake mistress makes are empty. Even if you send her a picture of your face in your sissy outfit, doxxing takes at least some amount of effort. For the scammer, this time is better spent on blackmailing another victim.

If you give everything on a plate for them, chances are they are going to fulfil their threats. They will go unpunished anyway. Police are not going to help you find an anonymous Twitter account made by someone in a foreign country. You have to prevent this from happening before it’s too late.

“MISTRESS” HAS DEDICATED HER TIME TO BUILDING YOUR TRUST

You might think that if someone has been talking to you for a few days, it is somehow different. Especially if you are craving real connection and, as many subs, struggle with finding a real Mistress. You need to realize that the scammer can easily remain in touch with dozens of submissives daily. As shown before only about half of blackmailers do it right away. They know what you want to hear. They have sent the same message you received, with little tweaks, hundreds of times. Don’t fall for that.

PAYMENTS – AN EASY WAY TO GET ALL YOUR INFORMATION.

Losing your hard-earned money is not a big problem, compared to other troubles that submitting your payment on an unverified site can cause you. If you’re requested to buy toys from a particular store or pay a tribute on an online platform, it could be as well a hacker’s own site. You will hand them over your name, phone number, living address… I had a slave who experienced that. He was approached by a “local domme” on FetLife who wanted to meet him for a session, but he needed to buy toys she likes first.

BLACKMAIL KINK – DO IT RIGHT

You read all of this, and you think “Ok, Mistress, but I just can’t be reasonable when I’m horny“. I get that. You don’t have to give up on what turns you on. As paradoxically as it sounds, do it safely. Except for rare cases, that is how most people enjoy femdom. We invent a scene, get in the right mindset, and go back to our lives.

Create the fake persona that you want to be exposed to. Come up with a story, and set up new social media profiles. Then look for a play partner.  A Mistress with verified accounts and a long social media presence will likely not be a scam. Femdom blackmail attracts a lot of people who are purely financially motivated, so look for someone who displays a legitimate interest in Femdom, not only blackmail and findom.

If you want to be sure you’ll be guided in the right direction – our training is open.

Be safe out there.

 

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